T-Time with Tori Totlis

EP192: Inside the Wimbledon Experience with Girls Gone Golfing

Wed, 29 Jul 2026 11:00:00 -0000

We're recording this episode from the road in England as our group heads to Berkshire for the first round of golf after an unforgettable day at Wimbledon.From the atmosphere and traditions to celebrity sightings and Princess Kate, we're sharing everything that surprised us about experiencing one of the world's most iconic sporting events in person. Along the way, members of our travel group jump o

EP196: T-Time Tournament Series, Best Ball at Sodus Heights Golf Club with Phyllis

Wed, 26 Aug 2026 13:42:55 -0000

We’re back for another Tournament T-Time as Tori and Phyllis take on Sodus Bay Heights Golf Club for an RDGA two-person best ball event. Before the round, Tori gets candid about watching her handicap climb from a +1 to a 7.0 and how her relationship with golf has changed. Instead of constantly chasing improvement and lower scores, she’s learning to put less pressure on herself, enjoy competing, an

EP186: Trying Out This YouTube Golf Thing

Wed, 24 Jun 2026 13:00:00 -0000

All four episodes of the Creek Cup series are officially live on YouTube — and yes, they dropped out of order (episode four first, naturally). Click the playlist link below to watch them in the right sequence. In this episode of T-Time, Tori and Ashley are joined by Aubrey, the editor behind both the Desert Classic and Creek Cup series, to pull back the curtain on what it actually takes to turn ho

EP191: Tournament T-Time Series: Member Member with my Mom at Oak Hill CC

Wed, 22 Jul 2026 14:39:34 -0000

In this episode of T-Time, I’m taking you straight onto the fairways of the legendary Oak Hill Country Club for a super special Net Best Ball tournament with my mom.We’re proving that confidence, fun, and competition belong to every woman golfer. We’re breaking down exactly how we tackled Oak Hill’s notorious East Course, overcoming pre-tournament jitters, score predictions, and the real-time stra

EP195: (Part Two) A Survival Guide to Nerves, Frustration, and Negativity on the Golf Course with Dr. Joe Parent

Wed, 19 Aug 2026 12:50:36 -0000

We are back with Dr. Joe Parent, bestselling author of Zen Golf, for Part 2 of our conversation about the mental challenges every golfer faces on the course. If you missed Part 1, go back and listen as we cover first tee nerves, pressure putts, intimidating opponents, your inner critic, and what happens when you spend way too much time in your own head.In Part 2, we’re tackling five more scenarios

EP194: (Part One) A Survival Guide to Nerves, Frustration, and Negativity on the Golf Course with Dr. Joe Parent

Wed, 12 Aug 2026 14:04:49 -0000

Every round of golf is filled with moments that can either build your confidence or completely derail it. In Part 1 of this conversation with renowned sports psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Joe Parent, we dive into some of the most common mental challenges golfers face and, more importantly, how to handle them with more confidence, clarity, and enjoyment. From first tee jitters to intimida

EP188: How Many Shots Your Mental Game is Costing You with Kathy Hart Wood

Wed, 08 Jul 2026 13:47:21 -0000

How much is your mental game really affecting your score?This week, Tori welcomes back Kathy Hart Wood for a conversation about the hidden ways your mindset can impact your performance on the course. From closing the gap between your range game and tournament play to learning how to bounce back after a bad shot, Kathy shares practical strategies that every golfer can start using immediately.Whethe

EP193: From Tiger to Lexi: Golf's Wildest Rules Moments with Christie & Bob Austin

Wed, 05 Aug 2026 13:10:59 -0000

Some golf conversations are worth revisiting, and this is definitely one of them. We're bringing back one of our favorite episodes with legendary rules officials Bob and Christy Smith to breakdown some of the most talked about rules situations in professional golf.From Tiger Woods and Lexi Thompson to Dustin Johnson, Patrick Reed, and more, Bob andChristy explain what actually happened, why the ru

EP197: College Golf is Changing Fast. Here's What Players Need to Know with Missy Farr-Kaye

Wed, 02 Sep 2026 12:00:00 -0000

Missy Farr-Kaye returns to T-Time to give us an inside look at women’s college golf and how much the landscape has changed since her first appearance in 2024. From the growing influence of the transfer portal and NIL to new eligibility rules and roster decisions, Missy explains what coaches, players, and parents are navigating behind the scenes.The conversation also goes beyond recruiting. Missy s

EP187: Tournament T-Time Series: Best Ball with Phyllis at Stafford

Wed, 01 Jul 2026 11:32:31 -0000

Tori and Phyllis are back for another installment of the Tournament Series, this time heading to Stafford Country Club in western New York for an RDGA two-person best ball event. Tori had never played the course before, but Phyllis assures her it's one of the best — home to a legendary ladies' invitational and built by white-collar Buffalonians who wanted a hidden gem in the middle of nowhere. The

172. We’re Back and We Have Some Updates!

Tue, 28 Apr 2026 08:55:00 -0000

I’m so excited to be back on the podcast! We’re recording brand new episodes and will start dropping them weekly. In this episode, Ashley and I fill you in on what’s been happening behind the scenes and what exciting things are coming next – thanks for listening! Watch this episode on YouTube!For more information on our 2026 & 2027 retreats and tournaments, please visit: CompeteConfidenceGolf.com 

EP201: Golfing in Every State with Mr. and Mrs. Golf

Tue, 27 Oct 2026 04:00:00 -0000

What started as a golf date turned into a marriage, a couples golf community, and a mission to play in all 50 states. Today, I’m joined by Everardo and Nicole, the couple behind Mr. & Mrs. Golf, to talk about building a life around the game they love.You probably know Everardo as the photographer behind our golf trips and events, but this time, he’s sharing his own adventures. With 24 states check

179. Tournament T-Time Series: 4-Person Scramble with Phyllis

Tue, 26 May 2026 12:10:20 -0000

Want to crush your next 4-person scramble and be the ultimate golf tournament partner? In this first-ever Tournament T-Time Series, I’m joined by the phenomenal Phyllis Haberer, 2025 Club Champion and President of the Durand Eastman Women's Golf Club, to break down real-time strategy, mindset, and teamwork that wins tournaments.We dive into Scramble rules and strategies to maximize your team’s str

EP177. The Golf Closet: Finding the Perfect Swag & Tee Gifts for Your Tournament with Alix Chesno

Tue, 19 May 2026 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode of T-Time, Alixandra Chesno from ShopAlix drops in to talk about tournament merch, fashion, and gear.Looking into planning a themed tournament for your club? We’ll share some inspiration, including swag ideas and decor to create memorable experiences.From tennis pro to golf fashion mogul, Alix shares how she built a brand that’s changing women’s golf style, and we bring back The Go

EP184: (Part One) Misses and Fixes, Full Swing with Justin Klemballa

Tue, 16 Jun 2026 11:13:41 -0000

Stop losing strokes to frustrating misses! In this episode of T-Time, I sit down with the incredible Justin Klemballa, founder of Breaking Bogeys, to decode the shots that steal our confidence and our scorecards.We’re tackling the Snap Hook, the Slice, the Topped Shot, and revealing why your grip strength might be the silent killer of your fairway accuracy. Justin also breaks down the Swing Path C

EP189: Golf Etiquette 101 with Alex Anderson (Part 1)

Tue, 14 Jul 2026 21:38:23 -0000

This week, Tori welcomes back Alex Anderson, founder of Babes Golf, to discuss all things golf etiquette. Before diving into the topic, Alex shares exciting updates on Babes Golf's expansion across the country, including recent pop-up events in Cape Cod and New York City, upcoming plans for Chicago, and details from their latest Babes Vacation at PGA West.The conversation then shifts into the unwr

EP175. Three Golf Improvement Mindsets to Take Into This Golf Season with Justin Klemballa

Tue, 12 May 2026 11:13:24 -0000

In this episode of T-Time, golf coach and performance expert Justin Klemballa returns to reveal his proven P.A.R. Method, a mental and practical framework every golfer needs to dominate the upcoming season. Whether you're aiming to break 90, win your club championship, or simply enjoy the game more, Justin breaks down how you can achieve your goals. Discover why just making bogey might be the smar

EP183: Tournament T-Time Series: 6-6-6 with Phyllis at Locust Hill

Tue, 09 Jun 2026 10:00:00 -0000

In this episode of T-Time, I’m live on-course with Phyllis Haberer for a real-time breakdown of the 6-6-6 golf format at the historic Locust Hill Country Club.Today, we play 6 holes of Best Ball, 6 of Modified Chapman, and 6 of Scramble, testing our mental and physical endurance on a 100-year-old course that hosted the LPGA for nearly 4 decades (1977–2013).We share our unfiltered tournament experi

173. Love Him or Hate Him, What Rory Taught Us at the Masters with Evan Singer

Tue, 05 May 2026 10:00:00 -0000

I'm sitting down with Evan Singer, co-founder of The Par Train, and we’re diving into the Masters Tournament at Augusta National. We’ll get into the deeper layers of the game, from course design to player psychology, and the emotional journey of the sport.What makes Augusta National such a unique challenge? We look at the evolving back nine, the planned rollbacks, and the public perceptions of som

EP181: Inside Look at Being a Senior Editor at Golf.com with Jessica Marksbury

Tue, 02 Jun 2026 15:44:29 -0000

Women now account for 52% of all golf participation gains since 2020. In this episode of T-Time, I sit down with Jessica Marksbury, Senior Editor at Golf Magazine and a driving force behind some of the most compelling women’s golf storytelling today.As a former varsity golfer, Jessica shares her unique journey from the course to the newsroom, revealing how she’s shaping the narrative for the milli

EP180: Step-By-Step Guide to Planning Your Club's Guest Day, Invitational, or Charity Event with Kim Eaton

Thu, 28 May 2026 13:34:58 -0000

In this episode of T-Time, Kim Eaton, Colorado Golf Hall of Famer and one of the most decorated amateur golfers in history, shares her proven, step-by-step guide to planning your club’s Guest Day Invitational or Charity Golf Event.From securing hole sponsors and building a budget to selecting winning tee gifts, prizes, and entertainment, we break down the entire process. We cover critical details,

EP178. How to Be the Best Tournament Partner with Phyllis Haberer

Thu, 21 May 2026 13:32:58 -0000

Want to be the perfect golf tournament partner? In this episode of T-Time, I’m joined by Phyllis Haberer, 2025 Club Champion and President of the Durand Eastman Women's Golf Club, to reveal the mindset and strategies that make a winning duo.We’re talking energy, attitude, and the little things that make a big difference when you’re playing side by side with someone. Phyllis shares her tried-and-tr

EP185: (Part Two) Misses and Fixes, Short Game with Justin Klemballa

Thu, 18 Jun 2026 12:00:00 -0000

In this second part episode on misses and fixes, Justin and I tackle the most frustrating short-game mistakes that cost golfers strokes: the chunk shot, the fat bunker shot, and the dreaded shank, and we teach you exactly how to fix them.We break down the mechanical flaws and mental triggers behind these misses, and we offer simple cues that help you stop hitting behind the ball and start making c

EP190: Golf Etiquette 101 with Alex Anderson (Part 2)

Thu, 16 Jul 2026 17:06:18 -0000

In Part 2, Tori and Alex dive into the world of tournament golf and all the things no one really teaches you when you first start competing. From scorecards and Golf Genius to rules mishaps and handling nerves, this episode is packed with lessons learned through experience.The conversation covers how tournament golf differs from casual rounds, why playing in uncomfortable situations can actually m

EP200: 5 Ways to Play Your Best Game on Your Golf Trip with Justin Klemballa

Thu, 15 Oct 2026 04:00:00 -0000

We made it to 200 episodes! Justin Klemballa joined me for our first ever episode and our 100th, so it only felt right to have him back for this milestone.Today, we’re talking about how to play better and enjoy yourself more on your golf trips. Justin shares highlights from his first Pinehurst retreats and then, we get into five ways to make the most of your next golf getaway.We cover preparing fo

EP176. Let's Talk About Bandon Dunes

Thu, 14 May 2026 11:27:43 -0000

In this episode of T-Time, I’m pulling back the curtain on the 2026 Creek Cup at Bandon Dunes, and let me tell you, it was magic - the highs, the laughs, and the moments that made it unforgettable.Want to know which Creek Cup location you should get to next? We rank our favorite past tournaments and locations.We kicked things off with the most important decision of the week: our tournament mascots

EP199: Making the Best Impact with Adam Young

Thu, 08 Oct 2026 04:00:00 -0000

Adam Young joins Tori to break down what your most frustrating golf misses are telling you. From snap hooks and slices to thin shots, chunks, and shanks, Adam explains how understanding impact can help you make simple adjustments without overthinking your swing.They also discuss why practicing the opposite of your usual miss can improve control, how to take those feels onto the course, and why a p

174. What It Really Took to Film the Desert Classic Docuseries with Carly Gilleland

Thu, 07 May 2026 10:00:00 -0000

In today’s episode, we’re sitting down with Carly Gilleland, the creative force behind The Good Vibe Studios, to talk all about what went into creating The Making of the Desert Classic, our 6-part behind-the-scenes documentary following Arizona’s biggest women’s golf tournament.We talk about the chaos, creativity, and real-time problem solving that comes with filming something this big, including

EP182: What I Wish Golfers Understood About Wedges with Michael Leonard

Thu, 04 Jun 2026 12:18:59 -0000

In this episode of T-Time, I sit down with Michael Leonard, +2 handicap golfer, mental coach, and host of the Wicked Smart Golf podcast, to uncover the secrets to mastering your wedges.We trace Michael’s journey, from quitting his corporate job to averaging 60 competitive days a year and publishing multiple books. Michael breaks down the non-negotiables of wedge play: why custom fittings are essen

EP198: From the Think Box to the Play Box: Build a Better Golf Game with Lynn Marriott and Pia Nilsson

Thu, 01 Oct 2026 09:00:00 -0000

Lynn Marriott and Pia Nilsson return to T-Time as we revisit how to play better golf without changing your swing. Drawing from Play Your Best Golf Now, they share practical ways to build confidence, manage nerves, and enjoy the game more.In This Episode:Simplifying your Think Box and Play BoxManaging balance, tempo, and tensionResetting when nerves or frustration take overBuilding confidence throu